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  • Change Happens to Everyone

    Congratulations. You’re special – you and you alone are going through change. Or at least that’s how it feels when you’re in the midst of it. Why me? Why now? How unfair! Really the questions should be: Why not you? Why not now? And who promised life would be fair anyway? The fact that I’m […]

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  • Change is Inevitable

    As I noted yesterday, change catches you off-guard. Ironically, what catches me most off-guard about change is its inevitability. Life is what life is. Change happens. In fact, it happens all the time. I think we notice change when it arrives in its most dramatic form – a person who was here suddenly isn’t. A […]

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  • Change Catches You Off-Guard

    I find it interesting that the very thing I decide to write about is what seems to be happening to other people in our lives. Last week, a former coworker’s infant granddaughter suddenly, inexplicably, passed away. Over the weekend, a friend’s mother passed away. Not unexpected, but not expected either. It’s change. It’s sudden. We […]

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  • About the 31 Days

    For several years, I’ve read The Nesting Place blog. Not all of The Nester’s posts apply to me – and those I’ve felt free to mark as read and move on. Others stand out. Stories of changing, growing, learning and adapting. Lessons in forgiveness, starting over and coming to terms with what is. And one […]

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  • Riddle Me This

    Why is it when you’re scrimping and saving, as the Hayleys are (trying to pay off our mortgage quickly), that you want crave low-cost food? I’m talking bologna, spaghetti, salad suppers and tuna on matzoh. And plenty of home cooking, of course. Delicious. And it helps the budget, too, so that’s a good thing. On a slightly […]